Mentoring Ministry

Mentoring Ministry

You don't have to walk the path alone. Let us be your helpful guides 

leading you to a life of recovery and healing from betrayal trauma




Renewing the Ruined

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Affordable Mentoring

No Travel Required

We offer afforable services to you at the rate of $65 an hour for the first intitial month and $75 an hour thereafter

We provide faith-based guidance and support for hurting women affected by the pain of betrayal trauma 

We mentor women from around the world through secure and private Google Meet meetings

Mentoring Services

Our goal with 1-1 mentoring is to develop a personal relationship with you so that you can feel safe enough to grow and heal from the intense trauma that you're facing. As your mentor, we will give specific goals and work through the resources we have available that will help you become confident in the Lord's plan for your life going forward. Most of all, we assure you will not walk this path alone!


As mentors, we have been unctioned by the Holy Spirit to fulifill this call - 

'They will raise up and restore the former desolations; and they will RENEW the RUINED cities' - Isaiah 61:4


Stephanie's Story


I understand what it's like to go through the roller coaster of emotions that betrayal trauma can bring. I had no idea that being married to a porn addicted spouse of 13 years would be traumatic. However, many symptoms such as heart palpitations, nightmares, depression, dissociation, panic attacks and a clinical diagnosis of PTSD gave me some insight into this web of chaos.


For many years, I lived off of 'hopium' which is the idea that maybe things will get better if I just pray more, fast more, or get more counseling then it will work out. All the while, my body was telling me to get to safety. 


One of the most valuable takeaways on this journey of healing is I could not have done it alone. I had my sister and other close, safe 'others' in my life to confide in and share my heavy emotions. I lived out Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 which says, 'Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow.'


My heart in sharing my story is that you too would be willing to accept a partner (mentor) on your healing journey for two are truly better than one. 

About Your Mentors

Jamie's Story


I’m a divorced, single mom of a 14 year old daughter. My life was impacted by two separate affairs in my 19 year marriage. I know firsthand the symptoms of trauma that women experience due to betrayal. The intrusive thoughts, recurring nightmares, panic attacks, and hypervigilance. Without the right help, these symptoms only progress. 


After the first affair in 2005,  I didn’t have the necessary tools to guide me to healing nor was I aware of what to look for in true, prolonged changed behavior in the person who betrays you. I knew a little bit about what true repentance looked like and my ex husband exhibited some of that and so I took him back. Now, I realize I should've taken more time to heal and grow from the pain I experienced. 


Fast forward to 2018 and a second affair hit my marriage. Many blessings happened in between the years, including the birth of our daughter. I was grateful to have a restored marriage, but I was soon blindsided when I discovered his second affair. I truly didn’t see it coming.  


My hope is that women will be equipped with what to do after the pain of betrayal. I desire that they become aware of what’s happening and then get the tools necessary to help them move forward in their lives, whether they choose to stay in their marriage or seek to separate. It’s imperative that all women seek the Lord’s will for their individual lives and as a mentor, I would love the opportunity to allow the Lord to use me to help you become the woman God designed you to be!



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